So I’ve been thinking what shall I wrote next on my blog?…
I need to post more often, even if it is one person who reads my post…
And so I shall ‘try’, but life as a first time mother can take over… Then, click light bulb 💡 flash. There I had it, that would be the name and statement of my next post… ‘Life As A First Time Mother‘.
As a lady in general before I was pregnant, I was busy and organised. However, ‘now’ I am more busier than ever and my organisational skills have played a superb part in the segment of being a mother. Since my priorities and life stem around my baby, yes I think about myself and would like/do at times treat myself. But if I don’t treat my baby too, I certainly do not feel right or feel it is worth me looking out for number one. When my other half to me (my son) is ‘my number one’ too!
I swear I loveeeeee my baby so much!!!!!!!! Only God knows how much and how deep, there is no other love out here so conditional than loving a baby and watching them grow and develop throughout each moment of the day. They certainly do grow quickly! So yes it is right to take as many pictures as possible and spend quality time with them, even when they are having their off days too. As a first time mother, I know my baby and a mother in general does or should I say they should! And same goes for those who foster, care and are guardians of a child/children. Especially if they have grown them from a baby, that in itself is memerising and a graceful experience!
Despite I will not sugar coat it at all! It can be hard, some even say difficult but each to their own. But whatever negativity you feel within yourself as a parent and mother even if your a father that is the mother ‘and’ father for the first time just know…
You are doing your best! And you are doing an expectational job and if you have not found your potential routine that a lot of the time needs tweaking for you and baby, you will! Do not give up hope, do whatever errands in home and out of home that needs completing and try get some sleep!
Cause you will feel better as time goes by, just you feel like you have a hangover. Cause things just start to get on top of you, life is happening ‘alot’ and time is just flying by. Where is time for you?!
But it is all about making time for you! As a first time mother, I self learnt that when you don’t take time out for you even if that means settling baby to sleep while you sit in silence for peace or using spa treatments in your home because you can’t attend or afford a spa at the moment or even watching your favorite programmes/a movie. Even if their on catch up whilst the baby is settled do you!
Make sure you look after you, take up a hobby. Even if it is indoors doing a little fitness like myself to renergise, stay fit and healthy and just breathe! Be you!
Life as a first time mother is rewarding, but also at times challenging but baby will love and adore you no matter what. But most importantly when ‘you’ are looking after yourself with smiles and happiness to retrace back to your beautiful baby. So yes this is my life as first time mother, that I absolutely love! And me and my baby are a package! That little person relies and adores me as their mother and whether others appreciate or respect it or not, we are a package and I still will embrace motherhood!
As I have learnt, not many people like that my baby and I are a package. However I am a new lady, who is elegantly going through the chapter of being a first time mother and loving it! Whoever does not like that, good ridden! Those people were never for me or my baby in the first place, as I feel my baby came at the right time in my life. Where I achieved my whole education including university with no gaps, achieved and succeeded in the jobs I wanted in my ‘careers’, travelled in and around the world, became a member of the biggest healthcare system ‘NHS’ and much more of my own personal goals achieved. So now is my time for me and my baby to grow, venture, focus, laugh, love and travel with and to most greatly enhance this chapter of me being a new woman as a ‘mother’ – ‘Cruz mother’ and in that I will do my upmost to ensure he is showered with attributes money cannot buy, with the values and qualities children need and boys should have to become strong grown males who also respect and appreciate ladies of all ages in this world as my son foremost came from a lady – (myself). I shall represent women the best I know how without conforming to society. Having humbleness and grace with elegance and my own persona and skills with the qualities I’m blessed with beam through like sunshine ☀️ through a cloud ⛅️
So this sums up my life as a first time mother, which is the best and biggest achievement of my life! – (MY SON)
Truly grateful and thankful 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Love as always, Miss Rose 🌹